My whole family went out to dinner for my father's birthday at our favorite restaurant, a Japanese steakhouse. At about $20 an entree, it's usually the most we spend for a nice meal. I let the kids bring their leftovers with them when I dropped them off with STBX. Soon after I left, he texted, "Trying to buy the kids love...Too funny...loser."
I'm so sick of him texting me and insulting me and assuming he knows what I'm thinking or doing. Since he continually texts me about non-urgent matters, I'm tempted to speak with my lawyer about this and see if anything can be done. Has anyone ever filed a harassment charge against their spouse or done anything like that? I know I should just ignore and delete or have someone else look first to see if it's anything important, but I just want it to stop.. I know it shouldn't hurt my feelings since he's just being an NPD asshole, but after more than 12 years together, I must admit that it does.
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Shortly after D-day, I got my own phone account and used the new line for my family, teslet's school, etc. Eventually, I got to the point where my phone that was still on his account was put on silent and only checked once at night and once in the morning.
Do what you can to minimize his intrusions. I don't know how harassment against a spouse works...hopefully, someone will be along that can speak to that. But do check with your L if there is anything that can be done.
[This message edited by tesla at 10:44 PM, May 25th (Saturday)]
Your stbx is a real POS.
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
So sorry your going through this.