After weeks of I don't knows,
Sure and now he just wants you to leave it alone.
His answer is a lot of things.. none of them the "truth" he would like you to believe.
He's saying.." she was irresistible and so "it's not my fault".
He said it knowing it would hurt you and again.. you would blame yourself. leaving him "not responsible"
When i say OUCH he says when you don't want me to minimize things
And i'm sorry, but he is using this as an excuse to hurt you.
Whichever way you look at it he is being manipulative and gaslighting you.