Topic: A moment to remember
Member # 36853
| Posted: 10:31 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013|
I have to stop and smell the roses for a moment...
This morning I shed silent tears because of the involuntary shudders my BH frequently has when we touch. He fights revulsion constantly because of what I did to us. I guess this morning I was being dragged along behind or under the rollercoaster.
Fast forward to this evening...
I was at the sink washing dishes when BH gave me a hug from behind, kissed me on the neck and told me he loves me. I'm a lucky girl.
I'm keeping this moment fresh in my mind for the next dip or plummet.
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs
Posts: 1426 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Member # 28053
| Posted: 10:57 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013|
Those moments are very special early on in R.
Even now, I find it hard to believe we are where we are. I never thought we would get here.
I am happy for you.
Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
Posts: 4859 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
Member # 31349
| Posted: 10:58 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013|
I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown
Posts: 17316 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 16024
| Posted: 5:41 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
Take up your space (and do it well).
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."
Posts: 37574 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 37091
| Posted: 6:28 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
I'm happy for you.
Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild
No longer together
"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."
Posts: 2734 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 26859
| Posted: 9:27 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
Sounds like it was a great moment for knight too.
WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl
Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Member # 29446
| Posted: 2:08 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
Thanks for the post, knightsbff. I was having a down moment today and your post reminded me of the same moments I had the last few days with my husband. It's good to remember that sad moments are just that, and they don't mean whole sad days if we're able to focus on the good and don't lose hope. I'm happy for you.
Me: WW/MH 30s Him: 40s 1 Daughter
LTA, not divorced with no R
I confessed PA 6/10. Detailed confession: 9/10. All the truth 9/11.
Posts: 365 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: California
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