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User Topic: Trigger Free Day
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost 18 months ago to the day was Dday. A year ago I could barely leave the house. All day was one giant panic attack.

Yesterday I think I had my first Trigger Free Day.

As I was laying in bed last night I was inventorying my feelings throughout the day. I could not think of one moment that I was in a rut. I'm sure there were passing thoughts but none that invoked any negative feelings.

I was grateful for the present. I was hopeful for the future. I was in the moment. I was free.


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2630 | Registered: Aug 2012
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome mate! Glad to hear that.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4003 | Registered: Dec 2011
OptimisticWife
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Member # 36587
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope you have many more good days ahead

Posts: 190 | Registered: Aug 2012
sailorgirl
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Member # 38162
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That rocks! I can hardly imagine it, but you've given me hope.


Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
soveryweary
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Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. So happy for you.


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 627 | Registered: May 2011
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