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roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today is my birthday. Waffle returned the kids after the memorial day parade. He got me a card (from the kids), flowers (from each of the boys), a cake ("happy birthday mommy") and candles.

So bittersweet. How did thoughtful guy become selfish evil whore fucker?


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 729 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In a post about Mother's Day, one woman wrote, "If he doesn't do anything, I think he's a POS. If he does do something, I think he's a POS. Basically, I just think he's a POS."

This is how I feel, and maybe you do too. They just can't win anymore no matter what they do..

I would forget about that fool and focus on having a fabulous birthday with your kids. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2111 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8588 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!
I'm glad you can celebrate with your boys.


Posts: 34777 | Registered: Mar 2011
dmari
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dmari)))
Happy Birthday!


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday! Don't spend another second wondering why he does anything anymore, none of it will make sense anyways.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3557 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
Linus1968
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WW did not make time for my children to see on my birthday yesterday. As of last Monday, they would be. Then I get a text from my DD on Friday "We are going out of town." I spent it yesterday with friends. I did see them today, and we had a beach day. She did send a text "happy birthday". Gee, thanks. Now I feel guilty for not sending a happy mother's day text. NOT!!! The best present from her would be she not send it and to hand me divorce papers.
Your WH is trying to show he is a big man trying to be the friendly one after blowing up the family. In June, kick him in the gonads and say "happy father's day." Almost the same thing, except, adultery hurts worst. I would do it to my WW if she had a pair. Maybe I will do it by proxy to the OM.
By the way, Happy Birthday!!!

You're an interesting species, an interesting mix. You're capable of such beautiful dreams and such horrible nightmares. You feel so lost, so cut off, so alone, only you're not. See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable is each other. - Contact


Me: Me
Her: Multiple men, multiple times, OC with the latest one
S: 16, D:14
May 27, 2014 DIVORCED!!!
In the words of Dory "Whew, I'm glad I got that off my chest."

Posts: 238 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Hell, and my X is the mayor (FL)
roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fortunately, it is spelled out in the visitation plan that regardless of whose day it would normally be, they spend birthdays with the relevant parents.

As for him being friendly, that is exactly how he got the nickname "waffle". He has been beyond friendly at times, like a desperate attempt to feel like he's doing the "right thing" in the face of blowing up his family with such destructive decisions. There have been tears, texts about (somewhat) uncomfortable beds, texts saying "we should sit down and talk", texts saying that MOW was "disgusting and wrong", voluntary tests for STDs, and on and on. What's missing? Actually ending it with MOW.


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 729 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
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