I don't think it would have been as good if we forced it before. I was just not in the "Let's do the romantic cruise" mood. It just seemed the right time, I was actually excited about it.
It was right after our last cruise that his xWDBC came back into his life and that began the spiral into the madness. I thought I would tigger just eeeing a ship but with a lot of help by IC, I was able to separate the 2 worlds. Helped we did the complete other side of the Caribbean.
I am so glad we waited. This was one on the best & romantic times we have had ever. He had roses & champagne in the room, and it was just a great vacation.
I thin the best was our last night with the new friends when we were all toasting to our fun. His toast was to me and just simply "thank you"
and I could feel he meant it.