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User Topic: just keep your fucking hands off my desk!!
inconnu
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Flame  Posted: 1:10 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I took a half day on Thursday and all day Friday off, so I could have a really long weekend. I came in to work this morning to find someone had gone through every stack of paper on my desk. Nothing was where I left it.

Checked with my boss to see if he had been looking for something he couldn't find. And he said he had been putting things on my desk, but not going through anything.

Turns out the office drama llama took it upon herself to "organize" my desk for me. She was just "being helpful" she says. passive aggressive, nosy-ass bitch!! she's lucky I didn't show her where she could stick those file folders of hers.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
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Like you're less than, less than perfect


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no she didn't!


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luv_lost
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

take her stapler!


BW (me) 31
WH 33
DS1 8 yrs.
DS2 1 yr.

Anniversary 6/09/04
DDay 6/27/09
Wedding 3/15/12
DDay2 5/5/13

presently working towards...well i don't know anymore...


Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Philly, PA
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get a sentry turret:

http://www.thinkgeek.com/product/ee85/


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7454 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would've been livid


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24546 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
idkam
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Grrr! Take her red & black pen....


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Posts: 1796 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to thank StillGoing--

I've wasted an hour and $100 on the ThinkGeek website.

End t/j


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Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well... I guess it's good I didn't link to Games Workshop then.


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! My desk is organized chaos... It would make me super angry if someone messed up my system.

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no she didn't!

oh yes, she did. and then she spent the rest of the day pouting because I didn't jump with joy over the "nice" thing she did for me. or maybe it was because I was noticeably pissed off.

shit, even my boss mentioned that drama llama would have thrown a fit if someone did that to her desk. she doesn't even like it if we pick up stuff from the printer that she printed.

so I'm sure, somewhere in her P/A head and heart, it's all my fault for not understanding she was just trying to help.

thank god this day is over, and this week is a short one.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12151 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It got so bad at my job that everything was organized into folders. I had about 10 of them packed to the gills that got locked in a drawer before I left. Every morning I'd take them out to my desk area and every night they got locked in my drawer. I got tired of people going through my work and losing my paperwork.


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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Perhaps my room isn't a neat and organized as it could be, but damnit, I sure as hell know where everything is!! FTB!!


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Posts: 2249 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I'd be pissed! I don't work very neatly but I do know where everything is and I do have a system.


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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm getting ready to return to my workplace tomorrow, and I have the same problem - I sit in a semi-public area, so all kinds of people that I DON'T KNOW are at my desk, all the time.

This time, before I went on vacation, I literally took everything on my desk and locked it up in my coat closet. There isn't even a piece of paper laying around. The worst thing that'll happen is that my computer will be turned off (another pet peeve of mine, but I can't lock that up too, heh).

Let's see them try and use the stamp pad all over my desk calendar now. (Yes, this really happened.)


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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If she's not a supervisor or directly involved in your job, I would make a complaint to HR. Otherwise, lesson learned--everything gets put away and locked up before a planned vacation.


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Posts: 20228 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
NotDefeatedYet
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You need finger print dust. Put it in some key places when you leave, but wipe it off when you return. It's really hard to see, but if you get it on your oily hands, it turns black. Imagine the nosy office person with a big black ring around one of their nostrils they are completely unaware of.


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Posts: 769 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Texas
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@ NotDefeatedYet:


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2595 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
osxgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would have to use a Jumpo Trainer hidden under some papers everytime I left my desk.

http://www.jumpotrainer.com

[This message edited by osxgirl at 4:01 PM, May 29th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 2398 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Maryland
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so today I found some new stuff (from last Thursday afternoon after I left) in the middle of some of the papers I'd on my desk for weeks.

seriously, who the fuck organizes papers, puts them in a folder, but puts the new, urgent stuff in the middle?


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12151 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the finger dust stuff. I say do it.

What baffles me on this thread is why it is okay for another person/people to go through you stuff. I thought that wasnt allowed...well, if someone else needed papers you had but that person would let you know but note or verbal.

Why didnt the boss tell drama llama to leave your desk alone and go do her own work? If she has time to "straighten" your desk she needs another project...or they dont need her.

Since she fouled up your work can you take her into the bosses office and let her know she needs to keep her hands off your work


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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