In my decree (Texas) my ex was first awarded expanded visitation. This amounted to every Thursday (overnight) and the 1, 3 and 5th weekend of each month
In January of this year it changed to every other week and my 14 yr old was given primary to dad and I was given expanded visitation for him. For us it has been a nit are, mostly because of how my ex-spouse has parented the kids. Or should I say -not!