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User Topic: Brad Pitt is a doosh (ws marital re-write)
damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/brad-pitt-confessional-esquire-interview-1904079

So Bradd Pitt did this recent major interview where he talked about all kinds of things, including the fact that he was on drugs the whole time he was married to Jennifer Aniston. In fact he pretty much blames Aniston for it, then goes on to say he Angelina Jolie helped him become a better person.


Newbies, when we talk about how the WS/AP rewrite their marital history, this is what we are talking about. When we talk about how the WS/AP need to perpetually fuel the drama with the BS because it fuels their shitty "relationships", THIS is what we are talking about.

Also, thank you Brad Pitt for inspiring me to torrent your new movie instead of paying to see it, you are a gigantic asshole.


Keep calm and carry on.

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I completely agree with you on this. Re-writing the marital history, blaming Jen for his problems, treating Angie like some angel from heaven who "saved" him, etc.

But sorry to say, I'm still gonna swoon over him in Fight Club. Especially the scene by the van full of explosives where he rips of that purple jacket and exposes his chest

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 9:38 AM, May 29th (Wednesday)]


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damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think his comments hit home for me because my XH was a heavy drug user and drinker during the marriage. I could imagine him saying the same crap. Like instead of being a real man and admitting the drugs made him a terrible husband, choosing to blame the marriage for the drug use. GRRR!


Keep calm and carry on.

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movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sadly I still love Angelina. Don't care too much for Brad. I guess they are apart of the 3%.... Maybe because of the kids.


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Ingrid67
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't stand either one of them and would not pay to see any of their movies. Their affair makes them both ugly to me.

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Completely none of my business, and I really shouldn't assume about people I don't know, but I think they have an open marriage..

ETA: Make that "relationship" or whatever their status is..

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 9:37 AM, May 29th (Wednesday)]


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damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IMO any "relationship" that started as an A is a farce.


Keep calm and carry on.

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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't stand either one of them and would not pay to see any of their movies. Their affair makes them both ugly to me.

Ditto.


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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a hard time working up much of a head of steam about the end of the Pitt-Aniston marriage. The rewrite rings true to me.


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reclaimingmyself
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a hard time working up much of a head of steam about the end of the Pitt-Aniston marriage. The rewrite rings true to me.
This kind of makes me very sad since I know the ex told a lot of people a lot of lies about me and I am sure they think his rewrite is true and he is so lucky to be free from me.



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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The way he keeps dragging the M into the open to justify is actions is right out of the unremorseful WS hand book. He has been talking bad about the M for years, so typical of blamshifting. I find it interesting that he is STILL doing this 8+ years later. Meanwhile Jen has clearly moved on.

I can't stand Brangelina and will not watch anything either are in.


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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was wondering too why he still talks about it after all these years and why in such a negative way, just to then turn around and say that Jennifer is a great person. Sounds like a desperate attempt to stay relevant and shows his lack of class.


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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doesn't he do this every time he's got a movie to promote?


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suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It does make him look like such an ass. His ex wife says nothing about him and has moved on with her life. Yet, he still finds the need to publicly bash her and their marriage.

And Angelina Jolie is a jackass. Despite all of her humanitarian concerns, she's a very selfish person and looks like she makes no bones about getting what she wants at the expense of everyone else.

Neither one of them are relevant or classy.


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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This kind of makes me very sad since I know the ex told a lot of people a lot of lies about me and I am sure they think his rewrite is true and he is so lucky to be free from me.

My WH did, too.

I base my opinion of the Pitt-Aniston marriage on an interview they gave soon after they were married, when they both said they did not know if the marriage was forever, but it was for as long as it felt good.

At the time, I believed it to be a publicity stunt. I now think it was immature impulse. I think Jennifer Aniston likely became more invested than Brad Pitt.

But the fact is, he did what we wanted our WSs to do: he ended his marriage. And I think there were a lot of reasons for this that we don't know. Was his wife hurt? Of course, and that is terribly sad. But I just don't see the end of their marriage in black and white terms.

Celebrities get interviewed. They get asked what people want to read. They answer the questions. (Aniston has, indeed, spoken about him.)

I don't believe he's rewriting much, to tell you the truth.

I'm sorry. I know that he's the target of wrath for many BSs. I have been a BS for over 20 years, so it's not because I'm unsympathetic to BSs or sensitive to history rewrites. I was trashed for decades--without my knowledge. I get it. I know what it feels like to learn that everyone you know thinks you're something that doesn't even begin to resemble what you are----because a lying, cheating douche has told lies about you.

I just don't think that's what he's doing. I think that he perhaps has grown up. (And I also think he was somewhat unfairly vilified.)

[This message edited by solus sto at 3:30 PM, May 29th (Wednesday)]


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nolight
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One thing I can never understand is how everyone completely ignores the fact that Anniston became an OW too. People love to hate angenlina Jolie over what she did but Anniston can have an affair and run off with someone else's part dr and everyone's cheering? I find her behaviour more deplorable as she still tries to maintain a poor, innocent victim persona.

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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is what happens when 2 narcissists get together. They desereve each other.


nar·cis·sism
[nahr-suh-siz-em]
1. inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity. Synonyms: self-centeredness, smugness, egocentrism.

2. Psychoanalysis . erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All the infidelity stuff aside, when someone faults others for their own life choices I have to roll my eyes. He's pretty much saying his personality is shaped by the flavor of the moment rather than any personal conviction. How weak and malleable. Why would he want to admit that?


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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's one thing noone else has mentioned yet. The media make things up, misquote and will basically do anything to have a "story".

Celebrities, and especially the huge Hollywood celebs aren't really like us. They live their whole lives in the media spotlight. It must be a total nightmare at times.

I'm not justfying anything, I just don't waste much of my time caring what "celebrities" do quite honestly.


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Pippy
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Remember the incident where Angelina stuck her leg out through her split dress skirt while presenting at the Oscars?

THAT was the true Angelina showing up. She's not the demure sainted madonna figure she pretends to be.

She's a publicity seeking egotistic narcissist,like the double mastectomy story. She loves the headlines and orchestrates them.

Brad says he won't do any love scenes with other women in movies anymore. Is he that insecure about their relationship?

[This message edited by Pippy at 3:49 PM, May 30th (Thursday)]


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


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