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User Topic: What a vent!!
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


These are not my words--but it's one of the best vents I think I've ever seen. You can see it at: www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/hate

Again--not my words but spot on and to the point.

Fuck you for cheating on me. Fuck you for reducing it to the word cheating. As if it was a card game and you sneaked a look at my hand.
Who came up with the term cheater? A cheater I imagine. Someone who thought liar was too harsh. Someone who thought devastator was too emotional. The same person who thought "oops" they'ed gotten their hand caught in the cookie jar. Fuck you!!
This isn't about slipping yourself an extra twenty dollars of Monopoly money. This is about our lives. You went and broke our lives. You are much more than a cheater. You killed something. And you killed it when it's back was turned.

WOW!!

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

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Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love that. However, my STBXWW won't even admit she cheated. She thinks the biggest crime is that I looked at her email, so this - like so much else - would be totally lost on her.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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Want2help
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You killed something. And you killed it when it's back was turned.

This got me. SO TRUE.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014

Reconciled


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cayc
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You killed something. And you killed it when it's back was turned.

And that sums it up quite nicely right there. Thanks WHG. I'm always up for a good vent!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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