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User Topic: Residential treatment tomorrow - needing support
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you today NIK? When will you get to see DD next?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))
Its nice that you are getting to see your DD right away.
Thinking of you.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm ok today, thanks.

I've set up a schedule with DD where I will visit her Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, but call her every day. Wasband will be seeing her Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and then both Saturday and Sunday as well.

I don't want to invalidate the "off topic-ness" of this thread, but two of the family goals that we set out during intake were
1. to encourage DD's independence while reducing her dependence on me, and
2. encourage DD's relationship with her father, so that upon her release, we can follow the visitation schedule we agreed to during the D.

There were several more family goals and a raft of individual goals as well. But those two specific goals are driving the visiting/calling schedule with DD.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still thinking of you, daughter, and even of wasband (mainly WRT his keeping his commitments).

[This message edited by sisoon at 5:55 PM, June 3rd (Monday)]


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am amazed by your strength. Hoping you have gotten some sleep. Hugs !


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
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Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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