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User Topic: Fear vs. reality
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 814 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping -- see new posters and fear mentioned.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3349 | Registered: Dec 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Most of my fears have become my reality.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9648 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Allidoiswin
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love love love this post! Thank you OP!!!!


BS: 36
SAWH: who cares, right?
Married 14 years
Three boys
Separated ~ Ready for happiness!

Posts: 10 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Georgia
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for blindsided81


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3349 | Registered: Dec 2011
Virginiagirl
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for Brentwood


Me- BS-43
Him-WS-42
Married 15 years, living together 20
DDay May 2013
TT ongoing
2 kids, 10 & 15
OW- old girlfriend from High School, and now umpteen stupid groupie local ho-bags

We are done.


Posts: 169 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: utah
Brentwood
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Member # 27465
Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the bump. I only read one page and it's touched on every fear. Great thread. Is there a way to bookmark it?


Me BW (59) What?!?!
Him BH (59)

Posts: 158 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: S. California
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, September 12th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been almost a month, so want to bump for the newbies.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3349 | Registered: Dec 2011
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