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User Topic: Finally, Someone Else Gets It!
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The blameshifting has become something of an artform and for some reason still surprises me.

It also makes me sad, because not even children are immune to being blamed for an adult"s actions, are they?

Perv is now not only blaming DD on things that I don't agree with him doing, he's also blaming his own lawyer!

It's a sense of "he made me!". and "it was what she wanted."

I replied simply as I could and reminded him that she is 10 and shouldn't get to dictate and neither should he!

What kind of person can allow themselves to do that to a kid? And it's repeated.

The only tiny bit of comfort is that at long last, it's not only me getting blamed for his actions and words, but it took 20 years.


Ashland 13

The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge


Posts: 1965 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hahaha...

I laugh because waffle is the same. I posted that he filed recently, and now is "offering" to withdraw that complaint prior to my counterclaim.

Yeah, so his lawyer told him to file....


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 707 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They are perpetual victims of their own life.

What a shitty-ass existence, huh?


ish kabibble

Posts: 4188 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Pass
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ashland, I bet it will be a HUGE relief for Ash-hole when he finally doesn't have y'all screwing things up for him.

Poor guy.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1349 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor, poor perpetual victims. Even victims of their own children's machinations. Even the lawyer they pay to protect them from mean evil wivsies victimize them. Poor beleaguered men. Poor menzies.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8759 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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