For those of you who kept your married name, doesn't/won't it bother you when your ex remarries?
I'm fortunate to blissfully unaware of what (or who) he's doing, so.....nope, won't care.
My married name is a part of my identity, just like my past is a part of me. It's my name. I don't think of it as "his" at all the way some women seem to.