Getting to Happy,
When you wrote this:
"I fear that if I let my guard down and never talk about his trysts with the ho-worker that he will think that it magically went away. And then I think...not so fast buddy!"
It made me think of something I have read about men and women that made sense to me:
When there is a problem, or bad thing that happens, men like to tackle it and fix it and then never hear about it again because otherwise they think they haven't ticked it off their list of things to do while....
women like to talk and retalk about the bad thing because it makes them feel safe that the bad thing will never happen again.
Perhaps that is why we (women BS at least) want to keep talking about it....to make us feel that the bad thing will never happen again.
Do male BS want to talk about it less than female ones?