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User Topic: Feeling lonely today
savvy
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been a hard day. I have to do a colonoscopy prep. Yuck. And my kids are out today. Just feeling very lonely. Wh has called a couple times to see how I was doing , but I feel like he should be here , even though that's not the best thing now. We went out last night as a family it went well kept conversation to fun stuff. It was hard to say goodbye. He approached me with a kiss and said he loved me. Today is just hard would have been nice to get together with friends I hate this lonely feeling


me-BS (49)
him-WH (49)
2 children 21 and 19
Together 30 years
Ow-(30)and she knew me knew he is married.
D-day 1 4/24/2013
D-day 2. 7/9/2013. Day after anniversary
D-day 3. 8/12/13.
Filing for divorce

Posts: 135 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: connecticut
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Savvy))

No advice. Good luck tomorrow.

Detach from him. Contact just makes it harder to step away and see things clearly.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7781 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck with your test tomorrow. Doing the prep is the absolute worse part IMHO. I'm glad that your dinner went well, but you know that you have to stay detatched until if and when, you see consistant actions. Doesn't make it any easier, I know. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Savvy))


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((savvy)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17890 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((savvy))))
I am so sad for you.

I hope your procedure went well.

Hang in there.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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