So, my H's sister and her baby have been here since Sat. They leave tomorrow.
I notice so much more how their upbringing - their lack of boundaries, rules, discipline is apparent now that they are grown ups. She behaves as my H did pre-A. There is stuff everywhere, nothing really seems to get done or it takes forever to do. And the excuses. Oh Lord.
My SIL makes excuses about everything. Why the baby is not eating, why he needs a movie to fall asleep at night (he's 17 months old), why she and her parter have not read 5 Love Languages, why they don't go to therapy anymore. Honestly - it is ONE excuse after another!
I SO WISH my H felt comfortable speaking to his sister about the A. I believe she could benefit from his ability to own his behaviour and start taking accountability.
Anyone else see their spouse in a sibling's behaviour - and is the sibling more responsible? Less? Or about equal.