When he says, "I'm so ready for this divorce," I really think to myself, Um, are you ready? Sounds like you are trying to convince yourself there.. If you were so damn ready, you would be answering my questions and suggestions about the assets and holidays and such, not continuing to insult me.
I made that leap to believing this was really over a long time ago, so I'm all about the facts now. I guess he's still questioning it, cause he just won't or can't check his emotions at the door.. Or his NPD chip is hard at work.. Whatever it is, everyone is right that ignoring is the way to go. Not only does it protect me and my emotions, it drives his crazy.. He tries to bait me into arguments all the time, and you can just feel the annoyance at my silence ooze out of his emails and texts..