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User Topic: Made me tear up at work
Mack9512
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Content  Posted: 10:08 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My fwH sent me a picture via text message. It was a picture of his ring finger with both his old and wedding bands on it. The corresponding text message said, "My first band is your symbol to me. The new band is my re-commitment to you. Also, metaphorically, the new band keeps the old band where it should always be." He went on to say that wearing both bands together felt comfortable and right.

He surprises me every day.


"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

Posts: 390 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

awesome, I love to hear that there are wandering spouses out there who really get it.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's very sweet.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Lucky
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Mr Lucky also wears two bands, I love it.


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MissD
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice, thanks for sharing.


BW 40's - WH 50's
M 20yrs, T 23yrs
2 children
Multiple EA, OA,& PA's
Thankful for my faith in God to be my strong tower.

Posts: 70 | Registered: May 2013
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome.

I love the idea!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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Hearthache again
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H is not able to wear his ring at work. He wants to get a ring tattooed on his finger. He keeps telling me this. I am not one that likes tattoos and we have always held the belief of not marking our bodies.

He always told me he would never get someones name on him, because his father has all 3 wives names on him(2 ex wives and his current wife). For H to want to do this is big. He wants everyone to know he is married and that its permanent. I am really close to giving in and letting him do it.

[This message edited by Hearthache again at 10:38 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)]


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Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

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musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H is not supposed to wear his ring at work, but he never takes it off. He puts his gloves over it when he is out of the truck. I thought he took it off. Not sure why, but it made me feel so good that he leaves it on (at least until I remember the safety risk).

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agreensleeve
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I will be showing my H this.


BS:53/FWS:59(LCFBastard)/M:33 Years
DDay: 25Sep09:Online Porn;2Oct09:Emails/PA w/Escorts 6 times from Apr 03-Sep 09.In IC/MC/R.
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