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User Topic: Old 101: SI smartz I lurnt good
FaithFool
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Funny  Posted: 1:48 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been stealth-trolling on one of the sites (my profile is hidden).

I just peek occasionally and if someone new and attractive pops up I will send them a message.

So this week's prospect popped up with one very cute photo and very little info, claiming to be single.

(Clue #1)

He responded favourably to my initial salvo, so we get to chatting, mutual interest is biking.

He says "so now what" and I say "well, more pics of you for starters..."

He comes up with one really lame shot of him and his grown sons with his granddaughter.

(Clue #2)

Then he comes back with "wanna go for a bike ride?"

So I say "Um, no, not yet, more info required!" and proceeded with the "what happened with the mother of your kids" type questions, ending with "what brings you here".

Crickets.

(Clue #3)

Thank you SI for giving me so much smarts it's intuitive...

[This message edited by FaithFool at 1:50 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17323 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are braver than I am. I won't even put up a profile.

Yes we have learned many lessons from SI.I'm finally smart enough to use them too.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want a sweatshirt that says "SIU"...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17323 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
TrustedHer
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Member # 23328
Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://siusalukis.cbscollegestore.com/product_enlarge.cfm?store_id=471&product_id=182885&image_num=1

My brother's Alma Mater...


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5139 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SIU, the University no one wants to attend, but is so very glad they did!

[This message edited by better4me at 9:36 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3090 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it TR !!!
We do graduate with honors.

Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SIU - that's perfect!

Ugh. I recently have been thinking about trying OLD, and each time I do I read one of you all's stories adn get spooked!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
InnerLight
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Member # 19946
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard a statistic on the radio that a quarter of all marriages now start with OLD. And that those marriages that started in OLD last longer.

Well, good for you FF. This is your first OLD story I've heard. You have gotten a great education here!

You could also say you would enjoy a phone call...


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

Posts: 5798 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Betrayal
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!


Me,38 BS
Divorced
Married
DS Born 9/6/10

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