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User Topic: A Picture of our R
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our First Garden:

I Tilled It
She Planted It
I Water It
She Weeds It
We Harvest It
Our Whole Family Benefits from It

[This message edited by Chicho at 6:50 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post sums up everything.

It shows so wonderfully the hope that exists here.

Beautiful!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37380 | Registered: Sep 2007
brokensmile322
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Default  Posted: 6:09 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this!!!!!

So much work to get it ready, so much work to keep it going, so much work to reap the benefits! Just like R...

AWE-some!!!

Thanks for sharing Chico! You and broevil should be so proud!


Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."


Posts: 1452 | Registered: Jun 2012
RockyMtn
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Default  Posted: 6:23 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2012
LA44
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Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nicer Chicho! Thanks for sharing.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2228 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Knowing
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Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!

(I haven't touched my garden in 3 years, but that's another story)


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 697 | Registered: Oct 2012
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! Make sure you plant some basil between the tomatoes - it's an excellent companion plant. Guess you don't have a deer problem up there?


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3868 | Registered: Dec 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9991 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
wert
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice.

I would recommend Giant Maragold's around the tomatoes as well, natural insect repellent.

Good for you guys.



Posts: 1427 | Registered: Jan 2012
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is wonderful


Growing forward

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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really like this!


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4760 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
happierdays
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your picture gives me hope for a brighter future.


Me - 40
WH - 41
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 7 years
1 DD

Posts: 145 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada
RoadtoPeace
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just what I needed to see. A hopeful future that both people are working towards together. Thanks!


me - BS
him - WH
Married 5 1/2 years
Dday#1 - 10/2009
Dday#2 - 3/2013
Status - He wants R, I am not sure I can get on that ride again

Posts: 41 | Registered: Apr 2013
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1411 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Joanh
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful. We have done the same and find it to be a symbol of growth. It was done together and it will be nutured together. Thank you for sharing 


BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....

Posts: 413 | Registered: Apr 2013
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

love this


me 33
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 212 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
5454real
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really like this post, and all of the positive implications tied into it. Thanks for sharing this.

Posts: 6757 | Registered: Dec 2010
MissD
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing, it's lovely!


BW 40's - WH 50's
M 20yrs, T 23yrs
2 children
Multiple EA, OA,& PA's
Thankful for my faith in God to be my strong tower.

Posts: 70 | Registered: May 2013
TarheelMom
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love this! :)


Me: BW

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