I am a few months into lawyer meetings and it's not easy. I wish you luck.
Things being worked on here are my rights for being a parent (custody and visitation issues) and my rights in regard to the property we own.
My lawyer (L) was interested also in things like any money given to us in lieu of child support by ExH, like bank statements, to show proof of it. In further regard to finances, he is also interested in any financial assets-stock, pension, savings...as you may have rights to it.
He asked for my tax forms from the last year, too. I worked hard and had many of these at hand prior to my initial meeting and it helped to speed up starting the process.
FWIW, I ask questions when there are problems with the visits with ExH and our daughter and I save them up because if it gets too long or detailed, he will charge for it more.
Again I wish you luck and am sorry for your difficult time. Hope this helped at all.Ashland 13
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