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User Topic: would you let your WS go ?
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How much better it would be if your WW acknowledged your discomfort by making the decision not to go. A truly remorseful WS should never pass up the opportunity to prove to the BS that they matter.

I firmly believe that R means the WS must make the BS their #1 priority.

My WH has spent 2+yrs fixing the mess he created and proving to me that he could be a far better person, H, father because he wants to be. I feel very comfortable saying that my WH would not go to this function...he gets it.

Your WW does not appear to get it.

I would voice my objection to her and let her know that if she decides to go she should pack her belongings and take them with her...never to return.


[This message edited by RidingHealingRd at 1:32 PM, June 6th (Thursday)]


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


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