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User Topic: "I'm not that person anymore."
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


hey wal, could be doing kickass stand-up in NYC..

Henny Youngman would have followed with..

..(i'd better send it in a PM )


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf

Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hhhmmmm, FWH has never said that. I wonder why?

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH says this and yes i believe him. He also says he hates that person and never wants to see him again.

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1083 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After DD# 3 WH kept saying he doesn't want to be that person anymore.

I told him he can either keep 'wanting' it, or he can make the changes himself instead of waiting for them to happen to him.

Since then he's said ' i'm not that man anymore' many times.

Only time will tell.

Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December

Posts: 160 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Illinois
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