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User Topic: Started working on vows for 25th anniversary
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We've decided to do a recommitment ceremony for our 25th next year. Here's what I have so far. Can you let me know what you think?

I stand here today to reaffirm my marriage vows. So many years ago, when we were young, we stood in a church and said words that were written for us. Words I'm pretty sure we didn't understand the true meaning of at the time.

Well, today I am not that young anymore and I'm not just taking a vow; I am giving you a vow and a promise in words that are my own.

My love for you has grown so much. It's a deeper love, a grown-up love. There have been times when I believed the problems before us were too big to overcome and too painful to forgive. I have learned that I love you more and deeper than I could ever have imagined and that love is strong enough to overcome and forgive everything in our past.

I admit I've held back, but today I give in to that love and recommit myself to you. I love you more today because of all that we have come through and because of the person you've become.

I promise, from this day forward, to love and trust you more and more as time passes.

I promise to be there for you when you are sick, hurt, need comfort or when you just want to share your day.

I promise to make you feel needed and appreciated for all that you bring to our life together.

So, I stand today in front of our family, our friends and you, my husband, to make these vows to you and I promise to give you all of the best of me and probably some of the not so best of me, for as long as we both live.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 669 | Registered: Jun 2012
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well...Tears are now running down my face as I am eating dinner alone in a busy restaurant.
Thank you
It sounds beautiful.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Aug 2012
Flatlined123
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Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. It's a work in progress. I'm sure in the year that I have I'll be revising.

I hope I can get through it without bawling like a baby.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 669 | Registered: Jun 2012
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