I don't know what it is! I am taking it all with a good sense of humor, and a beer.
I guess I have to look at it from the perspective of the male who might not be in a relationship that makes him happy, and he is looking for something different, and I am definitely different!
So weird being on the other end of the whole thing...
Please know that I have boundaries I won't cross, and I make that well known. Boom buddy, you are in a relationship and you are flirting with me? Um, no. Been on the wrong end of that stick too many times.
And then there is this other side of me just cussing, Damnit! Why? I liked that guy...
Hmmm....I don't feel like I am putting out any weird kind of vibe. I guess guys may take my open, honest, and friendly attitude as something else, like an open door.
I hope that when they meet me, and hear what I have to say, it makes them think about their relationships. But that is a stretch eh?