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User Topic: Good news!
the past is gone
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fellow SI's I have to share my good news. Yesterday I found out that the OW is gone! She went back whence she came. Hooray! She crawled back under the rock she came out of. Phew!

Honestly it's shocking that she moved thousands of miles away. She first moved to my state about 15 years ago and now she has left. She just picked up and moved. Leaving her adult child and an ex-H behind.

This is great because she works in the same field as my H and me. There were times when our paths did cross. Buy now that won't happen again. I never ever imagined that there would be a time when I couldn't bump into her. Now I'm free. And now she is really gone from our lives. It feels great!

Our reconciliation is probably complete. The A ended three years ago. The sadness that the betrayal occurred is still there but our relationship has grown considerably since D-Day. We communicate and my H has always been very remorseful and loving since the A.

I hate that the A happened but I am lucky to have survived intact, and now i'm stronger, smarter and happier then I was before the A. My H and I weathered the storm. We saved our marriage. 😄😍

BS- me 52
WS- him 52
Two young adult kids
OW- work relationship -younger
D-day- 2-12-10
M-27 years


Posts: 105 | Registered: Jun 2010
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you! Yay! And congrats on successful R!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fabulous! So happy for you BOTH, thanks for sharing. Wishing you much success and happiness, take care and enjoy not having to worry about running into you know who, what a relief!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 478 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
smittennomore
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Happy  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow!!! Happy Friday! That is amazing news and I am so happy for you (although also a little jealous).


Me (37): BW
Him (33): WH (1sorryGDF)
D-Day: 12/19/12
DD: 3yrs old
DS: Almost 2!!
2 yr EA/PA
Working hard towards R with IC's/MC
Slowly... but getting there

Posts: 60 | Registered: Jan 2013
musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So excited for you (and more than a little jealous).

Posts: 1057 | Registered: Jan 2013
Flatlined
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Member # 27637
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doin' a happy dance with you!


Me BW
Him FWH [Dr.NewMan]
Married 23 y/4 children In R
DDay #1 7/20/09 DDay #2 7/28/09 (2 As,both with *PSEUDO*friends)

Had him first. Have him last. Just wish I could have had him ONLY.


Posts: 509 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: South
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