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User Topic: Vacation
roseguide
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going on vacation.
By myself. No Husband, No kids.

This is the first time in my adult life that I am doing what I want on vacation. In the past all vacations were spouse or kid centered.

I made the decision myself - without discussing it with anyone - and planned everything myself.

Oh..and.. I'm paying for it by selling off the jewelry he gave me and his wedding ring.


I'm feeling pretty good right now.


D final 12/3/12 6 months and 4 days from D-day
My only missteps were; 1. Listening to lies because I didn't want to see the painful truth, 2. Letting it go on this long, 3. Being capable of love beyond all reason and condition - Eumenides, SI member

Posts: 183 | Registered: May 2012 | From: New Jersey
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice roseguide - go enjoy!!!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4375 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope you have a great time!!

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh..and.. I'm paying for it by selling off the jewelry he gave me and his wedding ring.

Sweet! Where are you going?


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17153 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic! Enjoy.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1684 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
roseguide
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone!

I'm going to a little island off the coast of Maine called Monhegan (Population 65 only accessible by boat!). I'm doing a painting workshop that I have wanted to do for years but I have never been able to go because of XH.
I have a little cabin all to myself.
I'll be hiking and painting then painting and hiking.
Heaven.
Bonus - it's a place we've never been together so there will be no triggers.


D final 12/3/12 6 months and 4 days from D-day
My only missteps were; 1. Listening to lies because I didn't want to see the painful truth, 2. Letting it go on this long, 3. Being capable of love beyond all reason and condition - Eumenides, SI member

Posts: 183 | Registered: May 2012 | From: New Jersey
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds divine! Enjoy!

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ROCK! Good for you for giving yourself this gift. You will absolutely LOVE every minute of it..

My first solo vacation was going to Chincoteague Island to watch the annual Pony Penning. It was something I had wanted to see since I was a little girl. My ex had NO interest whatsoever. So of course we never did it. Because if it wasn't for HIM or his DD then it didn't happen.

Have a wonderful time!!


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


Posts: 3070 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That. Sounds. Perfect.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 5:24 PM, June 7th (Friday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17153 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds like an amazing vacation!

Posts: 3256 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pushing the like button

Have an amazing time.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


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