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User Topic: Last night I dreamt that X and I were still M
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And he cheated again and I was freaking out and stressed out running around closing bank accounts and credit cards and trying to figure out were I was going to live. It took me quite a while after I woke up to realize that that we did not stay together after the first time and I had not been M to him for a very long time and I did not have to do anything.

What a freaking nightmare, literally!


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dreamboat, eeesh I hate when that happens. Been there...blah. Here to sweeter dreams....


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Dreamboat))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank goodness it was only a dream/nightmare !
Can you imagine if that was your life now ?
A dream like that just reminds you to continue counting those blessings.
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with gma. I have those types if dreams occasionally too and always have a sigh of relief when I wake up


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hate those dreams!

Lately mine has not included infidelity...we'll just be married and living like before DDay as though it never happened. I use to wake up sad from them but now I wake up happy that we are not together.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

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Runningaway
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have those sometimes! Another one is were I find out our divorce was never completed properly and we have to do it again. I sleep with my final divorce orders under my pillow. It helps.


What doesn't kill us makes us smaller. - Mario

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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sleep with my final divorce orders under my pillow.

That is funny.

I have to tell you that the feelings in the dream were exactly the same stress and panic that I felt during that time between dday and the D. Except I was scared that he would not take the money I had saved since then!!

It was such a relief to wake up and realize that it was NOT my life because I chose to D him so long ago. And at the same time I felt sad for the folks who tried to make R work with an unremorseful spouse and were stuck in limbo for years only to have that final burst of stress and panic because the unremorseful WS once again screwed them. I almost wanted to make a movie of the dream and show it to the folks in JFO as a warning.

And the consequence of the dream is that now I am reluctant to sleep for fear of another dream. sigh...

Infidelity -- the gift that just keeps messing with your head!

Thanks for the support everyone


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so with Dreamboat. To wake up and know it was just a bad dream, priceless.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After breaking NC and sending the sad clown on an ego kibble bender (complete with approaching me at a school event to hand a PillowPet to me which he could have just returned to daycare at any stage) - I woke laughing from a dream where he was asking for R. I laughed my arse off, so much so I woke myself laughing.

I'm still laughing now just thinking about it.

Not even if he were the last man alive - I'd rather sew it up.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you gave me a brain worm! Last night I dreamt we were considering R and he was still cheating (a different OW this time) and that he was into all kinds of weird and kinky stuff--and that my family liked him!! I'm still in a bad mood!


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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EEK! Sorry SiA


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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