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User Topic: *snort* reached the wifetress milestone
inconnu
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Funny  Posted: 10:42 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found out this morning that ex and OW actually got married several months ago and yes, I'm completely amused by it. Now I can finally use wifetress here on SI.

on the bad side, ds told me that he and his brother didn't find out about their dad getting married until after the fact. their dad is such a shit-for-brains stupid ass.

otoh, I got to hear more about ex and wifetress' relationship than I've heard in the past 4 years.

bwahahaha, karma is such a bitch, and apparently so is wifetress.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got to hear more about ex and wifetress' relationship than I've heard in the past 4 years.

Yuck but I'm glad it amuses you


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20273 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Always loved that word.

May his hell be prolonged and nasty.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 10:49 AM, June 8th (Saturday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17487 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
gma56
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes you now can use wifetress.

I now call OW twatwife, gotta keep the twat to describe her.
FT never told his son until after the fact of them getting married either.
We know how well the XHs keep vows and now it's their problem.

Oh and I heard she has tightened her reigns on him. She checks up on him every minute. True love.

[This message edited by gma56 at 10:54 AM, June 8th (Saturday)]


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20382 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SiA, it was all about how wifetress is insecure, and crazy. Ds said she even brought up the whole credit card theft thing out of the blue last fall, telling son she had nothing to do with it. He was like, that's so in the past.

Oh, and ds also told me I officially lost my "the meanest mom" he'll ever have title, because now he has an evil step-monster. And older son laughed when he found out about the marriage. I love my kids.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May they have all the happiness they deserve.

"wifetress" is such a great, descriptive word - I like it almost as much as "wasband."


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

omg, the wasband and the wifetress - sounds like a blog post to me.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the wasband and the wifetress

Genius!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20273 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you need my mailing address for my cut of the royalties?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll let you know when I get the book deal, NIK.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like.

Though I prefer to think of the 1st xww's OM as 'scuzband' (since they M'd too)

Don't have a name for the 2nd xww's current bf...maybe 'next' or victim...next victim?

(in both scenarios I'm the dang wasband)


Posts: 6644 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jjct - you are SO not a wasband. You're a first edition.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

muah nik!

Posts: 6644 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im glad this amused you. I love that word too but his AF is 77 so she may not live long enough to become a wifetress.


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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wifetress is one of my favourite words in the SI dictionary.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I try not to get too nosey about my XWW relationships. However I do know for a fact that when she is in one she tends to leave me alone. My XWW also likes to keep everything a secret. Even mundane shit is treated like state secrets. So that helps as I really don't care as long as it does not effect my son. Prior to her current BF all of her "Dates" were taken men. I assumed she kept tight lipped due to that fact. But this guy is single and 15 years younger then her. But she keeps his existence a secret as well. She is supposed to marry this poor guy. I assume she keeps him close as she does not want the truth getting out about her past. She claims he knows everything about her. I'm sure that's the fable version. Sometimes I feel like its my duty to warn this poor bastard. Ya know its part of the man code LOL. But everyone tells me its not my problem. Yet I do know how she can lie and deceive. Shit, it happened to me. The poor kid has no clue what he is in store for. But hey, maybe she has changed her ways. I doubt it, but maybe.


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a very strong NC policy. I haven't seen or talked to ex in a year. I don't ask my young adult sons what goes on whenever they're at their dads. In the past 4 years, my sons have rarely volunteered information. It's really just been in the last 4 months or so that ds18 has started talking more to me about his dad and the wifetress.

Oh, and as for leaving me alone, like I said, I haven't seen or talked to ex in a year. I'm pretty sure it's because his really insecure wife keeps him on a very short leash.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XH and NW married a couple of weeks after our divorce was final.. by a notary public in another city.

Their wedding announcement preceded out divorce announcement in my local newspaper. They pulled the marriage license in my county. They lived 2 hours away.

Over a month later they had their fairy tale wedding at their newly built house. The kids (hers and his) were all attendants in the wedding. She wore an off white dress, he was writing his marriage vows that morning. His parents did not want to go, but did as a favor to me... the kids wouldn't know anyone and were stressing about it. And the Inlaws brought the kids home to me. The dog jumped on the table and the cake topper fell and broke. The minister left and the chaplain came to preside over the ceremony. Chaplain was a couple of hours late. Chex mix and peanuts and cake were on the menu.

He tried telling middle DD that his anniversary was a month earlier (knowing his mind doesn't remember dates well) she told him "no dad, you anniversary is mm/dd/yy, I remember, I was there." DD2 told her the truth. She found out during a history assignment

NW keeps him on a very short leash... as well as driving regularly by my house since they moved less than a mile away.

I would not want to be him in his marriage.

Hugs,

k


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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