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User Topic: I'm hesitant to post this.
mel88
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You were unconscious for many hours??!

About ten.

Hum, this is more than a fall. Something is really strange here...... Mods?

What do you mean?


"tous dans le jeu, yo. tous dans le jeu."
-Omar

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You think you were unconscious for about ten hours?

Honey, there's something terribly wrong with your story. Something has happened to you. Something you don't know about. You may have been poisoned. You may have been given a drug. You may have been hit in the head (does your head hurt anywhere?).

I want you to call your mom, a friend, a neighbor, a lady from church, someone. Someone who will drive you to the ER with no questions asked. If you don't have a someone, then call 911 or just drive yourself right now, right this minute, to the ER. If you need to pee before you go, pee in a bottle, mason jar, or even a baggie you can seal. Whatever, make sure you collect a nice urine sample so the doctors can test it for drugs or poisons.

Something has happened to you, Hon. Let's get you checked out tonight by a doctor at the ER. Don't put this off. The doctor will also want to take a blood sample to check for poisons or drugs.

You need to do this. Don't talk to your SO. Leave him out of this for now. If need be just get up right now & go to the ER in your pajamas.

You need medical attention.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mel,
Did your fall involve alcohol and passing out for 10 hours?


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


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mel88
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Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, I wasn't drinking or doing drugs.


"tous dans le jeu, yo. tous dans le jeu."
-Omar

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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Mel88, are you still there or did you call 911 or a loved one to take you to emergency?


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


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mel88
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Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm still here. A bit hesitant to call anyone.


"tous dans le jeu, yo. tous dans le jeu."
-Omar

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HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please, please, please call 911, a friend, coworker or neighbor and head for the ER NOW!!!

Head injuries are very dangerous and may not have noticeable symptoms of a more serious condition until it is too late.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Why are you hesitant? Please call someone and then post here to let us know you called.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My God.

Just sit for a second and imagine your husband unconscious on the ground. Would you leave him for a second?

Please go get some help.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Adding to the chorus... please get to an ER ASAP...


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girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honey, please get to ER ASAP! 10 hrs of being unconcious is a potentially SERIOUS issue!


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These are the "innocent" reasons why you might experience unexplained unconsciousness. As you read this list, you realize that they are all deadly serious, right? If your neighbor was experiencing one of these things, you'd tell him or her to get to the ER, wouldn't you?

http://research.ncl.ac.uk/nsa/coma.html


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Mel88, have you called 911 yet?


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


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BrighterFuture
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Default  Posted: 12:53 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't mean to scare you, but go to the ER NOW!!! I'm in health professional school and we learnt about head injuries. One of them is called EPIDURAL HEMATOMA. It's very life threatening and has similar characteristics as what you've just described(unconsciousness). Don't wait another second. GO NOW YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER.

Hugs and prayers.


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

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Kalliopeia
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Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I worked in a neurosurgery unit for 2 years.

OP, you really need to call someone. Call 911 or a trusted person to come for you. You need to do it right now.

Poor lady, I hope you will act quickly on your own behalf.


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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 1:31 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I hope she called 911.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
mel88
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Default  Posted: 2:01 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for all the concern. I called a good friend who is a doctor. I'm more comfortable with her than the ER.


"tous dans le jeu, yo. tous dans le jeu."
-Omar

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MissD
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Default  Posted: 2:21 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with all who have shared their concerns.

Just sit for a second and imagine your husband unconscious on the ground. Would you leave him for a second?

Please go get some help.

A bird flew into my patio door, was unconscious and I drove the damn thing to a vet. That yor WS has no empathy or concern is quite alarming to me and I would think would be alarming to you. Unless you are conditioned to his negligence/abuse.


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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 2:26 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What did you eat or drink before you fell?

You were unconscious for 10 hours. So it was nighttime when you came to?


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nomistakeaboutit
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Default  Posted: 2:27 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you in an abusive relationship? Has your SO ever hit you?


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DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
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