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User Topic: My First Step in NB
Take2
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Cool  Posted: 1:52 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dday/S was almost 5 years ago, D was final last April. I don't post much here, because to date my NB has been all business - just trying to wrangle up a living, (I was a SAH - HSchooling mom).

Well, I just returned from the Caribbean! Days on the beach, cocktails by the pool, horseback riding through the mountains, snorkeling on a coral reef! Just Awesome!

Other than the trips the kids and I took to see family, it was my first vacation in over 30 years! Care to guess when I got married... Before that I'd backpacked through Europe, camped across Canada...

But married - the X complained I never wanted to go anywhere or do anything. I'm just realizing this is another area where I ignored the facts and let him spin things... See, we "never had the money" to go on a real vacation.... When the truth is, this trip cost less than a 1/3 of one of his many precious guitars...

When I got home, I'd received an "I love you" text from the X, (first Contact in six months). So glad I didn't have reception down there!

I am still waking up I guess, remembering who I am, what I enjoy... but it finally feels like I'm taking a step into a NB!!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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cass
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Wow Take2. That IS awesome


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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Take2
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Cass. It felt good to post something fun and positive.


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds amazing!




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tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahhhh....the beach! Good for you Take2! Where are the pics of the drinks and the beautiful blue water??!!


ish kabibble

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