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User Topic: Happy birthday, SI!
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 2:45 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for founding this site, MH and DS. Thanks to all of you have shared your wit and wisdom and growth on this website. I have learned so much from all of you.


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1779 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
WarehouseGuy
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Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 4:22 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI

I'm so glad you were here when I went through one of the hardest times in my life.

MH and DS---YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!


whg

[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 4:22 AM, June 10th (Monday)]


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5162 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
Laura28
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Member # 28997
Default  Posted: 4:32 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday

and

Thank you so much

HUGS

Laura


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2738 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 4:38 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best wishes and thanks so much!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1700 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
cantaccept
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Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 4:46 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very grateful for this site. I would not be able to get through this without all of you and your support.

It is such a comfort to know there is always someone there when you feel so alone.

Thank you for your hard work and efforts in creating this sanctuary.

Happy Birthday.


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

divorcing


Posts: 1247 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 4:53 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI !! You helped me through one of the toughest times of my life.....Thank You....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4828 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 5:18 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy 11th Birthday!!!!

Thank you DS and MH for this site. It has been a source of healing for so many.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51485 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 5:19 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI!!! Thank you so much for being here for all of us!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2568 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 5:41 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday, SI!

Thank you to MH and DS for providing the site that saved my sanity, made me realize that I wasn't alone, helped me to maintain my dignity, and prevented me from making a lot of foolish mistakes.

Plus, I've gotten to know some really cool people. I feel like it's my birthday, really.

[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 5:41 AM, June 10th (Monday)]


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI!!!

It's amazing that we've been up and running for 11 years. I'm so glad you all are here and able to use the site as a place for healing and talking to others that can relate to your feelings without judgement


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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whatdoto
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI!

So nice to have this place to turn to when you have no one IRL to talk to.


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, SI!!! Thank you for the love and support you give.

Posts: 33821 | Registered: Mar 2011
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI! Thanks MH and DS for creating a safe place for all of us.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3741 | Registered: Dec 2011
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, SI!

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI.

I can't possibly thank MH and DS enough for setting up this site. I really don't know where I would be right now without the site and the connections I've made here.

(((HUGS))) and to you all


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5825 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Happy birthday SI

Thanks for saving my sanity; for helping me to realize that it was him, not me; for being the one strong voice of reason (created by the voice of many) in my crazy world; for helping me to see my way out.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thankyouthankyouthankyou! And Happy Birthday!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17132 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HUGE thanks!!!!!
And Happy Birthday SI!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gosh, SI is only six months older than the youngest banana.

Happy birthday, SI! The good you've done is truly beyond measure.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15360 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Going_Under
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, SI!

Much love and blessings to you, DS and MH. There are no words to say how grateful I am for the hard work and care you have put into this place of such hope and help.

Thank you for creating such a safe place for us. Also, thank you for appointing such wonderful moderators and guides. We are all so lucky that you take the time each day to support us.


BS 42 (Me)
FWH 45
M 23 years
Three Children ages 20, 17, and 8
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.

Evil never thinks it's evil, it always has a really good reason. ~ Joan of Arcadia, TV Series


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