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User Topic: Happy birthday, SI!
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((AN)))

We love you and LD so very much

Jrazz...

Our doggies miss you and Lieshurt, AJ and Wifehad5...as obnoxious as they are, they are wonderful little guys And your next visit here, we WILL break out the $100.00 bottle of wine

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 3:19 PM, June 10th (Monday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday SI you all have been here for me so much and I thank you for that .. this is the best support I have ever had .. love you all. where all brothers and sisters here that need to lean on one another .. thanks again


me 33
him 32
6 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 225 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our doggies miss you and Lieshurt, AJ and Wifehad5...as obnoxious as they are, they are wonderful little guys

Do you mean the doggies are obnoxious little guys, or Lieshurt, AJ, and Wifehad5?

That sentence could go either way!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ROTFLMAO!!! Oh my gosh...it does read that way!!

But for clarification...Teddy and Kyle are the obnoxious ones


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy 11TH Birthday SI !!

Thank-you DS and MH ! I don't think I could have made it through infidelity and divorce without this site.

Big Hugs !
Gma


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is June 10 the actual birthday?

Even if it's close - Happy birthday!

I found several fora before I found SI, and none of them helped. Either moderation failed, or the basic principles were self-defeating. I actually got to SI because another forum criticized SI for giving support to WSes. (But how can a WS become an FWS without support?)

So thanks for setting up SI, and thanks especially for the way you set it up and for keeping it going.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
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Posts: 10341 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sisoon...

June 12th was the official launch date we took SI live, but the 10th was the completion of all the beta testing and organizing of the site

It's great to have you with us!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..i think i would have shot myself by now, had it not been for this site!

..truly 'life-saving' in my eyes..

>>>>>>THANKS SO MUCH<<<<<<<

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just want to add my deepest appreciation to all of you who keep this site running. Having people who believe, listen and validate your feelings has kept me going on this horrible journey. Thank you for all you do, you are amazing people!
Happy Birthday!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

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windowsnotwalls
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday.

The site has changed my perspective and direction in life immeasurably for the better. Thanks so much!


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey! How did I miss the party!!!!???
Happy Birthday S.I. and my sincerest thanks to you DS and MH for giving us such a wonderful place.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Meta))) We love you

I don't know what we'd do without all of you wonderful Staff...Guides and Mods!! you all are the greatest!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday to SI and thank you all so very much for the support caring and love.


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

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Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy 11th SI, this is really a great site. It's been a God send for me.

Just curious how this thing got started, DS and MH. I mean other than it coming out of your own struggles. It sounds like a great example of something beautiful rising from the ashes. Would love to hear a little bit about the history of SI's founding, if you feel free to share.

Thanks for everything.


Me (BS)-45, WW-43
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1450 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sall995...


Just curious how this thing got started, DS and MH. I mean other than it coming out of your own struggles. It sounds like a great example of something beautiful rising from the ashes. Would love to hear a little bit about the history of SI's founding, if you feel free to share.


MH and I used to belong to another on-line community, we received tremendous support and help during a very dark time for us. I became a Moderator as well for over a year there. The owner of the site felt it would be in his best interest to make it a pay site.

I tried to explain to him that most of the members could barely afford their mortgage payments, let alone pay to belong to a message board. The owner did not listen. MH, being a Web Developer, felt we could build a better on-line community and it would be our way giving back to those that came to our rescue in our time of need.

So,one night as MH and I were sitting here, I came up with the name, we registered it that night and we went forward with creating the site. We recurited a couple hundred members from the old site to help beta test and once that was completed, we launched SI on June 12, 2002 and my life has been a living hell ever since (I'm kidding!!..kinda of )

So that is in a nutshell how SI came to be. Since all those years ago, we've become an NPO recoginzed by the IRS, we've been featured in countless of magazines, online interview and membership participation with reporters. It's been a huge learning experience for us and a lifelong goal now to help those that need a soft place to land and share


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, SI!!! and thank you DS, MH and the others that followed, your help has been a Blessing.

I might have survived infidelity, but I wouldn't be who I am today without help from the people here.

Thank you,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday SI

((( DS & MH )))

I am damned sure that $100 wine has MY name on it.


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am damned sure that $100 wine has MY name on it.

That's the OTHER bottle...the one I put your name tag next to


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where would my life be today without SI...a decade ago this site saved my life.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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