I am not bothered by this, it will work itself through. Waffle straight up refused to drop MOW as a condition of S instead of D. I know exactly who he is and can move forward to D him with a clear conscience. I've done everything.
So... insurance admin error, or contempt?
Good luck getting it figured out..
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
I think marrying MOW once the respective Ds are final may be on the cards.
Finally, if I hear "I did not leave the kids. I left you" (actually I pulled the trigger, but whatever) one more time, I will punch something. Wed evening and EOW, asshole?? Yeah, that sounds like you're there for them.
[This message edited by roughroadahead at 3:11 PM, June 10th (Monday)]
I know the cheating hurts but I do hope you can learn to understand if someone leaves a marriage it doesn't mean they leave the kids. Some do. Some choose to never see their kids or pay support so if he is doing those things I can see his point. The cheating is awful.