My FWH had a LTEA. All kinds of A's suck, but you will get thru this.
Take care of yourself, eat when u can, drink, stay hydrated.
Can you tell a little bit more? How did you find out? Have you read the Healing Library? Are you still living together? Has he gone NC?
I am sorry you are here. But we are a great bunch of people, with a total of millions ( ) of years experience to help you any way we can.
Although it hurts to think this, he may have given you a gift of seeing the real him now, rather than years down the road with kids, mortgage etc.
What would you like to know??
Sending you great big hugs (((rellek)))
Eta: damn I hate typing on the iPad!!!