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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OUCH!!!!

Sorry about your accident, I hope you are all ok.

((((Aubrie, QS & kids))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2615 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, thanks for the heads up. DD7 was traumatized. First the whole family was going to die, then she refused to get out of the ambulance because she thought I was going to die. I had to promise her it was really ok and they were just going to check me out. I'm not dying, just hurt. Friends across the street kept the kids while we did the hospital thing. DD refused to eat till she saw me again.

DS4 was trembling and crying but once the fire truck and ambulance showed up, he thought it was pretty cool and started telling responders about sharks and dinosaurs. When we all got back to Mom's to eat, he was munching on his pizza and murmured, "That wreck was horrible scary."

My sister kept the kids over night so I could rest. DS didn't want to go. Was scared he wouldn't see me again. Promised him I would. I just can't properly care for them on my own for right now and Aunt would bring him to me in the morning. He seemed ok with that.

Somehow the impact tore me up the worst. As painful as it is, I wouldn't have it any other way. I couldn't bear to see my kids or QS in pain.

jjct, I'll be breaking out ice packs and heating pads today. Will try your suggestion. Mom will be babysitting me today so she'll keep an eye out for any crazy symptoms.

girlsbird, the nurse meant well but I *so* do not do needles.

[This message edited by Aubrie84 at 6:50 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)]


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6315 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow!!! Hugs all around!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24597 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you and your family are all ok, Aubrie.

I remember when I was 5 or 6 my dad got into an accident with me in the car. I had nightmares for weeks, and every time we had to go somewhere it was a fight to get me in the car. I was afraid that every time we drove someone would hit us.

I got over it...I think my mom said it took a month or two before I wasn't afraid of the car anymore.


I hope your Bronco is ok.


Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to hear there were no serious injuries Aubrie.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think my mom said it took a month or two before I wasn't afraid of the car anymore
Yeah, I suspect it will be the same for us. I spent the day on Mom's couch so she could keep an eye on me. The kids were there as well. Neither said anything about the accident till Mom took us home.

As we were pulling out of the drive, DS started whining, "I don't want to get hit again." DD threw in a couple comments too. (Shoot, I'm scared to get in a car.)

Once home, DD was joyfully proclaiming, "YAY! We made it home without an accident." Then DS curled up on the couch with me and said, "I didn't know that a Mommy could get hurt. I thought just kids. Why did you get hurt?"

This is going to be a process.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6315 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Aubrie & family))))

It is a process. And you'll handle it beautifully, one step at a time.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Aubrie, QuietStand and kids)))))

I'm glad you all are ok and I'm so sorry you went through that. As someone else said, the Bronco can be replaced but you can't. Take it slow the next few days and rest up.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Aubrie, QS, and Kiddos)))))

Take it easy with yourself and with kiddos... They process so very differently than we do. It is great they are talking to you about it. That says a lot about your relationship with them.

Lots of gentle hugs all around.

It is a process... take care of each other gently as you process this.

I am so glad y'all are ok.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5284 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aubrie! I'm glad you guys are all safe and relatively unharmed. I hope things with the insurance, etc, pan out the way you need them to. If you need anything (idk what I could actually DO here but I'm trying to offer support!) don't hesitate to let me know.
(((((((Aubrie and family)))))))


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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing everyone a speedy recovery, emotionally and physically! I know you're so involved with the kids but please don't get antsy and rush anything!


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1727 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Glad to know you guys r fine!


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy pearl!!! Im glad all of you are okay. Fingers crossed for your bronco.


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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confused615
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sorry to hear this..but relieved that it wasn't any worse.

((((Aubrie,QS,and kids))))


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7697 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry you were in the wrong place at the wrong time. I wish you all a speedy, complete recovery.

(Aubrie, QS, and kids)


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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