Topic: Do you think OW would have for pregnant given the chance?
Member # 27544
| Posted: 4:47 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
Mine did. She only knew my WxSO for 4 months at the time...don't think she knew what she was getting herself into.
Me: BGF - 32
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He is playing devoted baby daddy with OW. Did not even want to try for R.
Posts: 1850 | Registered: Feb 2010
Member # 38141
| Posted: 4:52 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
Oh, for sure.
Not only did chickie want children,she wanted children the same way wh and I had them!
Adopted, bio, foster, blah, blah, blah .....
They even discussed the hows, whys, length of wait, etc.
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.
Change that to: I heard the remorse, I see the remorse - We're no longer talking ending our marriage - He's trying. 12-13
Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 32935
| Posted: 4:55 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
Absolutely! She wanted to get pregnant. It is amazing that she didn't because they were also part of the club that used no protection.
TicK had a very young child already. She kept telling MrKOKO what a great father he was. Was he now?!?! So great that he ditched his kid to be with his TicK on Father's Day, on NYE, and on Easter. That's a great dad for ya!
TicK saw MrKOKO as her next meal ticket. She kept telling him that she wanted to start a "new family" with him.
And I also agree that I probably could not have R with him had an OC been part of the story. I feared for DS that MrKOKO would have another child.
"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"
Posts: 1005 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: On the corner of Grey St at the end of the world
Member # 37057
| Posted: 6:05 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
Thank god my h ow got her tubes tied.at least that's a blessing in disguise.
Posts: 287 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Uk
Member # 36060
| Posted: 6:26 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
Not sure. WH's PA started when our DD was 14 or 15 months old. Fortunately, he'd had a vasectomy when she was 4 months old. WH has no desire to have any more children, and MOW has two preteens with her stbx BH. MOW is also 44, so I'm not sure that her chances would be that good regardless of the vasectomy.
I cannot imagine the horror of a pregnant OW.
[This message edited by roughroadahead at 6:27 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013
2 DS and DD all w/autism
Posts: 653 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
Member # 38405
| Posted: 7:53 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
No. His AP is in medical school. Getting pregnant right now would fuck up everything she has going. Thankfully she isn't that stupid.
Me- Divorced! 12/4/13
"They cling to their bad choices out of shame, because it is far easier to continue to destroy yourself than to do the heavy work required to fix yourself." - a wiser SIer
Posts: 397 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
Member # 15942
| Posted: 9:46 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
Yup. That has been her M.O. for every relationship she has had. 5 babies...4 fathers. If she had a uterus I would be in prison.
Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.
Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.
Posts: 3886 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: souteast
Member # 36579
| Posted: 11:20 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013|
I think OW#1 would have wanted to get pregnant. STBX actually told me that the only reason it didn't turn into a PA was because he didn't want to risk her getting pregnant. Gee, thanks In a way I wish she had been pregnant, he would have been horrified and devastated and I would have laughed in his face.
During false R, he got a vasectomy. He was by then in regular contact with OW2 so it was all for her, not me.
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS11 & DD7)
Separated Jan 13. He's now living with OW3.
Posts: 173 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 36445
| Posted: 6:52 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013|
However OW has had her tubes done so I have been told anyway.
But I made xwh have a vasectomy after I busted after the previous affair. My reasoning was you want f**k around on me is one thing, but our children shouldn't have to share their father with another family. Luckily he was still in guilt mode when he did this.
Now in hindsight this was probably a stupid idea on my part because at least he was stealing our condoms for protection. After the V we no longer needed them, however this didn't protect me from any potential diseases.
Luckily he didn't bring anything home to me. But one doesn't think of these things when you are married you are supposed to be able to trust your spouse.
"You can never have too much happy!"
Posts: 917 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 24786
| Posted: 8:14 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013|
If she had a uterus I would be in prison.
It's scary how mashed up some of these ow are!!
BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć
Posts: 1236 | Registered: Jul 2009
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