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User Topic: BWs: Anger Issues? Self Esteem Issues? Solution...
CatchyUsername
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK - so I am 5 weeks in and the ANGER is really starting to set in. So I decided I needed a project - not some little decorating project but something involving LUMBER and POWER TOOLS! Yeah baby. So I head over to Home Depot and I had forgotten how wonderful it is to be a woman in the lumber department. I have all the supplies I need to take out my anger on wood/nails/powertools AND I got smiled at about a dozen times. :) Self esteem boosted. :)

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go girl. And love your user name!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great idea!

I would have loved to do something like that. We were building a new house when I found out about his affair. Putting my efforts into a home that would not end up being our home seemed pointless. So I signed up for a volunteer job that was physical and very fulfilling.

Bottom line is that a healthy way to vent our frustrations is great. Running, painting, boxing, cleaning out the garage, whatever. Do it!


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


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CatchyUsername
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks kernel!!! :)

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cancuncrushed
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I refinish furniture. Big furniture. It takes me to places looking for matching knobs, etc. Keeps me busy and meeting people. ANd Its satifying. Problems must be big. I am obsessed. Really obsessed.


a trigger yesterday

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