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libertyrocks
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Concerned  Posted: 10:18 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If he thought we were "doomed" and I would leave him anyway, then that totally makes me second choice.

The only reason none of his relationships didn't last is because all the OW were sluts and sleeping around with other men. IMO, his favorite LTA, was sleeeping around. So, since none of those girls were loyal to him, does he think, OH, MY WIFE WILL BE LOYAL, I better go back to her? I'm on a roll today...

Thanks for listening.


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
confused615
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have said that before..that he felt the two of you were "doomed."

What were those feelings based on? Did he attempt to work on the marriage before deciding it was doomed? Did he tell you before dday#1 that he felt that way?


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7399 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely not. I asked him when he thougth we were doing bad, he said right after we got married. That's when I was asking him to go to counseling with me. I did. He didn't. I didn't cheat, I'm not broken. He is.

Are you kidding me? I had to bust him. Never, did he come to me sorry, saying he did something wrong... :(


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
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