I'M ON THE FENCE
Focusing on ow keeps the pain inside, hurting you. At this point, she's irrelevant and totally unimportant. Your healing is what counts, and it's the only thing you can control anyway.
I'm just starting to heal myself.
Plus, it will never end. I want to see more pictures. It's horrible. I hate the place I brought myself to. I've been changing that.
You can type in a name and advance the search with a college name or city/state. You can even type in a phone #, that's how I found out about OW. Good luck! Oh, and don't use those online websites, they're rip offs. Also, check your phone bills! That's how I got my first lead...
[This message edited by libertyrocks at 3:11 PM, June 14th (Friday)]
It makes her real, and I would rather just her be a faceless demon.
And FWIW, just the thought of her name makes me throw up.
It didn't make me glad to hear, but sometimes there are answers that are better not to have and may just not come.
And at one point, hopefully HuRt, you'll get to a point where you don't want to know anymore.
The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge