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User Topic: did you dream about A?
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Default  Posted: 4:44 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember shortly after her first A started I woke up from in a panic (similar to those first dday feelings) after having a dream that she was cheating. I then convinced myself that it was just a dream, not much different from one about zombies or something I had watched on TV, and went back to sleep.

In hindsight it is clear that there were signs I was dismissing that indicated she was having an affair.

My biggest fear is that in future I might fall asleep with the TV on and mistake the affair related plot of some movie as a premonition type of dream.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After the fact, there have been a few. I haven't had one in a while, but watch, I'll dream about it tonight.

BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, after his A started but before I knew. I had a dream that he was having an A with a woman from our past. In the dream she had the physical form of his 1st XW but I "felt" it wasn't her. I woke the nest day told him about the dream and he said "Never gonna happen". I told him that the scariest part was that I felt that I would forgive him and try and work things out rather than leave. Found out later that the OW was my former BF and neighbor who his 1st XW had introduced me too. I have had several dreams since then, even up to this day and we have been D for 2 years and NC.

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, I never realized how many of us saw our future in our dreams, and how many WS knew about the dreams and still followed thru with making those dreams (actually I would call them nightmares) a reality.

I just don't get how a WS can tell you to your face that what happened in your dream will never come true, when thru either know its going to happen or when it already has happened. But then again it makes sense, they are basically living a double life. I for one will never take my dreams/nightmares, especially about WH, lightly again!!!

BS-me 31, WH-31, M'd-10 years
DD 8.5, DS 6, DS 5.5
Dday 03/01/10 (our DD's bday)
A ended 08/31/10-09/02-10 (with multiple ddays in between).TT on 08/2012, 09/04/12, 11/16/2012, 01/2013, 6/25/2013 Says he wants R, but not proving it

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