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NikkiD
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I havent posted in a while. And I guess you can say we are trying to reconcile. We still live in seperate places and I gotta be honest, I HATE living with my mom, but i am in no rush to make house with him again either.

I feel really indifferent. If he gets it together, ok, if not, ok. I dont really care.

Is this normal? Is there other work I need to be doing too? I mean, I just not feeling him anymore. How does one get excited about a person so was so disloyal?

Sign......


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

pffff. Just yesterday, I didn't care if he ate and then we had sex and made love all night. Go figure.

Yeah, I can't explain it. It's a process. That's all.

I've been doing 180, not even calling him. I want to love myself again.

Are you both in IC/MC? We didn't progress until we started and still become anti-productive when we miss sessions...

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 12:53 PM, June 14th (Friday)]


Me-BW 35. STBXH-35,active alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 little boys. M 6yrs T13.
Year+ false R & TT from Dday1 Nov 2012 IEA - Feb 2014 count at 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) for 3 years that I know of.
Filed for D.

Posts: 816 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
NikkiD
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Member # 38173
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, not in IC or MC. Not sure I care that much though. Sex doesnt mean much to be honest because its not mental for me anymore.....

I dont know, it may be a deal breaker for me....Im just not that into him, or being married at all. I would rather do the mom thing with all the sports, and dance and whatever other stuff they want to discover and explore.....


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
Topic Posts: 3

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