If you scripted the conversation, is there anything he could say or do in the next conversation that would make you feel ok/better? And then, if there is, how likely are you to get it?
No, there really isn't anything that could be said that would make me feel better. He's a jerk and has been my entire life...nothing is going to help that fact. As to why I can't say to him what I feel/think, it won't matter so why waste my breath. He doesn't care about anyone but himself.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
He asked you to call when you have a moment.
You don't. You have 2 jobs, 3 kids, pets, and a husband.
You do not have a moment.
Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
fWH had ONS with High School Principal he met on Ashley.com. 08/25/2009
It seems we have lived parallel lives! See my post about almost exactly the same thing. I know, from experience, that this is so, SO hard. I'm sorry either of us, or anyone else, had to go through this mess.
Feel free to PM me if you'd like.