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User Topic: Operation Trash the Wedding Dress - Success! Color Run 2013 pics
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love your smiles in the "after" pics Shelly. AWESOME isn't a big enough word for this. You rock! (And baby is so adorable in her tutu!)


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such a cool idea... and Little Bean is such a cutie pie!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Freakin' awesome!!

Your Baby Bean is adorable!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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SBB
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love love love it!!

This takes me to my happy place.

Makes me wish I hadn't thrown my dress out (I secretly cut it up before trashing it). I'd LOVE to do something like this. I may yet find a stunt dress to do it in.

I recently attended a charity race day event that my boss hosts (I walked it). There was a team there called "Divawesome". I thought they were Divas but they said no, we're Divorced and Awesome!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is just awesome! You and Baby Bean make quite a pair, Shelly!

(the seamstress in my is a little disturbed at ruining a gorgeous dress, but I told her to shut up )


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20160 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
She11ybeanz
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Cool  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Divawesome". I thought they were Divas but they said no, we're Divorced and Awesome!!

That's great! I LOVE that! I felt divorced and awesome!

(the seamstress in my is a little disturbed at ruining a gorgeous dress, but I told her to shut up

I kept telling myself that this gorgeous dress DESERVED to be worn more than once!!! And, NOW...it has an even BETTER memory than when I wore it for my wedding! It represents my freedom....my independence....my unrelenting sprint into my incredibly bright and unwritten future!!! It represents the new me..... and it was the best NB moment to date!!!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this Shelly!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please tell me Ex and ow were at the same run????? Pretty please????
Would love to have seen their faces.

You rock Shellybeanz.

[This message edited by timeforchange at 1:24 PM, June 16th (Sunday)]


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please tell me Ex and ow were at the same run????? Pretty please????

Unfortunately....I can't say with any certainty that they were at the race or not. I'm starting to think maybe not because MOW strikes me as the type of woman that wouldn't want to get "dirty"... as ironic as that sounds...

But... IF they were there....and they saw me get up on the stage at the end and everyone started cheering "Here's to Divorce!" ...my XWH would have most likely shrunk down to a pint size and scurried away out of mortification!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That does look pretty special!

Well done to you


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so much awesome-ness!


BH, now divorced

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k94ever
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lady.....you get a standing O.

(clapclapclapclapclapclap)

Bravo.

And Piper is so freeking cute she should be bottled and sold as perfume.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And Piper is so freeking cute she should be bottled and sold as perfume.

I love that!!! Piper Brut... for the CUTE in all of us!

She is such a ham! She knows when you are taking her picture and is always all smiles and giggles when people coo over her! She loves the attention!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shelly, those pics are AMAZING!!!!!

I LOVE how the dress turned out! Your happiness comes right though in the pictures.

And Piper is so freaking adorable!


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She11ybeanz
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Content  Posted: 11:34 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much! :-) I'm thinking of getting the following 2 enlarged! I think they are really good ones of Piper and I together!

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"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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Betrayal
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it bebe beanz is beautiful, glad you were able to share this defining moment with us


Me,38 BS
Divorced
Married
DS Born 9/6/10

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Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is fabulous! You both look so damn cute.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, the place that is doing my professional canvas pictures said that they can't enlarge the one of me in the wedding dress holding piper because it pixelates...(don't ask me what that means...) but maybe that is for the best. My bestie thinks that if I see that picture it will make me angry because I will automatically think of XWH.... I kinda disagree....but who knows! OH WELL! But, the one of Piper in the tutu and me holding her hands works! :-)


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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Runningaway
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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so cool! Wedding dresses should be colourful like that to begin with.
When I got married I refused to spend the money on a wedding dress b/c I thought what the heck am I going to do with it afterwards?? If only I had known what was possible...


What doesn't kill us makes us smaller. - Mario

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