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User Topic: Missed the perfect opening
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry you missed that opportunity but there will be more. Like others have said, practice talking to random men here or there, in just a friendly type of way. If there is any interest on the other end, it honestly doesn't matter what you say....just eye contact and a smile will open many guys up...

Some opening lines for you at the store for you...
(they don't have to be mind-blowing )

1. That looks interesting.
2. Uh oh,.....(said with a smile and a glance at the object)
3. Are we celebrating?
4. Oh cute...that is an interesting name for a bottle of.....

And hey, right after the split of me and WS, I also had trouble with eye contact with guys that I was attracted to. In fact, there had been a cop following me around the library and trying to catch my eye (he was drop dead gorgeous) and I remember I couldn't even look at him until he had his head turned, then I got my book and left so quickly I am sure he thought I was either a social moron or someone he perhaps should be running plates on.....

Practice, practice, practice. That was when I realized I needed to start talking to strangers again....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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