Hi, I am new here and this is my first post but I needed to read this thread!!
My husband had a one night stand last month with an old friend he had been chatting with online. He couldn't even make it 24 hours without the guilt being too much and telling me. He blocked her Facebook and phone number and told her to leave us alone.
I have not said a word despite her begging me to contact her. As far as she knows he intercepted and I don't know but I am finding that is ok with me. As far as I'm concerned she is trash, she is married, knew he was married with kids AND she threatened to use my own kids to hurt us I hope she feels used and abused and at this point I feel so good in ignoring her like she's nothing. I had struggled with wanting to tell her exactly what I think about her but after reading this I realize my silence is more than enough. :)Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013
Finally this is R 8/14/13
"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".