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User Topic: Talked to my boy tonight
tesla
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Happy  Posted: 8:45 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I called a couple of nights ago, he was clearly tired and didn't feel like talking...but tonight...holy cow! He had to tell me every little thing he got to do and see. And you know what? I didn't feel bad at all...just happy that he was happy and having a great time. My favorite observation of his: "Mom, they have really big palm trees but none of them have coconuts."

I admit, that my buoyant mood is probably helped by some info my sis passed on to me a couple of days ago. She keeps tabs on stripper whore's FB for me, since that fool is likely to post a pic of them being negligent around Teslet. Anyway, apparently stripper whore's car broke down and ex-shat doesn't have the money to fix it because of the grand Disney adventure. She was also whining that he won't let her use his car.
I admit, I am not healed enough to not care about this. I am not so healed that I don't get a teensy-wheensy bit of pleasure knowing ex-shat's finances are shit.

I did, however, stop myself from suggesting to Teslet that he should make sure he gets an amazingly awesome (very expensive) souvenir from every place they stop at. That's progress...right?


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh stripper whore...the honeymoon is over, princess. Eventually you'll be nothing but a baby mama.

Glad Teslet is loving his adventure!

Also glad there is suffering in another "paradise".


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think I'll ever get to a point of NOT laughing at the sad clown's expense.

It's just so damn thigh-slapping funny.

I'm not sure that its a sign of not being healed. I'm not wishing bad things on him anymore - he's doing all of this on his own. You get what you give.

I say good job Karma.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was also whining that he won't let her use his car.

My sister's ex did that to her. I never understood it. She was driving around in a terribly, unsafe 1996 Dodge Neon that she was constantly calling my brother and I about asking for step by step instructions to fix relatively major problems (because he also didn't want to work on her car or take it to a mechanic so she had to fix herself) while he was driving around in a low mileage 2004 Maxima and had a brand new Mustang that he drove on the weekends that she wasn't allowed to touch.

He was a special kind of asshole and your ex sounds like one too. I'm glad someone who deserves it is bearing the brunt of it instead of you.

[This message edited by h0peless at 11:23 PM, June 16th (Sunday)]


Posts: 1736 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Heartless Bytchh
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Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did, however, stop myself from suggesting to Teslet that he should make sure he gets an amazingly awesome (very expensive) souvenir from every place they stop at. That's progress...right?

Don't hold yourself back,now. I think it's a great idea.
Especially since this sounds like something that will create some really cool lifetime memories for Teslet.


Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit

Posts: 6063 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Another day in Paradise
Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:25 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe stripper whore should get off her ass and go shake her breast milk filled boobies at a room full of men to get the cash to fix her car. You gotta play to your strengths, stripper whore.

Just watch out for the squirts, gentlemen.


Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I admit, that my buoyant mood is probably helped by some info my sis passed on to me a couple of days ago. She keeps tabs on stripper whore's FB for me, since that fool is likely to post a pic of them being negligent around Teslet. Anyway, apparently stripper whore's car broke down and ex-shat doesn't have the money to fix it because of the grand Disney adventure. She was also whining that he won't let her use his car

I recently heard the OW has suddenly realized she doesn't love my XWH, she still loves HER XH, and she is also sleeping with yet another married man on the side. When our spouses leave for messed up people, the messed up people don't get better, they just keep on being themselves.

I have to say it makes me extremely happy to hear this crap because it gives me hope that our children won't be in these OW lives for long, as they will move on.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy that you're happy.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it wonderful how hearing the excited voices of our kids can make us smile.

I'm smiling for you Tesla... he's happy, excited and making sure he tells you everything when he talks to you.

Awesome kid you have there, mama.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe stripper whore should get off her ass and go shake her breast milk filled boobies at a room full of men to get the cash to fix her car... Just watch out for the squirts, gentlemen.

Ah, geeze, bravenewgirl, now I need brain bleach for the images that I just came up with. ROFLMAO


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4943 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll never be healed enough to not care for XWH stories of misfortune.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sparkysable: AMEN to that!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:51 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll never be healed enough to not care for XWH stories of misfortune.

I'm with you, sparkysable! Bring 'em on!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2388 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really glad for Teslet and glad you got to have a real talk with him, Tes.

This goes on with Perv too, in different ways. One of my biggest supporters is a sibling of his and I don't know why, but I was rather gleeful the day BIL told me that OW knows I am pregnant.

Apparently it was another door-slamming day and this made some very rare smiles for me all the way home from that visit with BIL.

My mother sent DD a coconut in the mail-no box, no wrapper-so we often wonder if Grandma climbed a tree to get it or went to a market. She's NPD, so for me it's highly amusing.

I'm glad you're sounding better, Tesla...it's scary to have to let our kids go with a parent who left.

I have a friend who has a young teenager and while on visit with ExH there, got drunk and totaled WH/ExH's vehicle. They've also called her from jail on beach vacations, when he and OW get drunk together.

It sounds like it's less fabulous there in unicorn land than originally might have been and that is always good news.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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