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User Topic: Officially A Season
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just stopping in to say, I'm triggered constantly lately. Last year, we started false R mid-Jan. I'd later find out last October during disclosure that that the PAs, online dating sites, ashleymadison, etc, started in May continuing through Labor Day.

It's going to be a long summer. He's trying to help me through with positive reassurances and affirmations. I have full transparency. He's setting some new, much needed boundaries and sticking to those. Still, hard to get to sleep some nights, other nights I want to be in bed by 7. Nightmares are ridiculous. (5 last night, 2 that repeated, I just gave up on sleep and stayed up after the last one.)

I'm taking positive steps for myself, vitamins, dr appts, IC, productivity, reading, group support, quality time with family/friends, blood tests, etc.

(sigh) Time, that wretched word.......time, that's the only thing missing still.

Just finished my morning reading/journaling routine, now off to get ready for my IC appt. One day at a time, forward leaning.

[This message edited by windowsnotwalls at 10:35 AM, June 17th (Monday)]

"She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails" (Elizabeth Edwards).
Forever Conditionally Detached

Posts: 503 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Pittsburgh, PA
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner

Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
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