I feel like you do most of the time, where now he can spread the drama and lies around there, for there isn't a calm minute when he shows up here.
It seems like feeling confused would be appropriate, for it's probably one of the most difficult and awkward experiences we may ever feel.
I've often been told and read that it isn't always about looks, for what I've seen of Perv's OW, she is rather large and reminiscent of the '80's and has a lot about her that he used to make fun of or complain about in people. It's sometimes about "convenience" and a willing person.
The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge
Thank you for sharing your experience! I am proud of you!
[This message edited by dmari at 11:32 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]
I saw the COW in her office building a few weeks ago. Freaked me out for a minute, but freaked her out more, based on her hiding behind corners and then rushing into her office like her g-string was covered in fire ants! By the time the elevator arrives for me, I was laughing, visualizing her sneaking in and out of her office indefinitely so she won't run into the big bad XBW again!
Still hurts, but trying to accept what is. I really like the fact that the next time he cheats, it won't be on me, but will be on her. Then she can wipe that smug smile off her face! She thinks she won the prize, well, good luck with that!
You are the far better person, remember, they always affair down. You have your integrity, class and innate goodness.